It's been a full week since Dina and the kids left Niamey. Of course, it's nice to have time to yourself and read the newspaper uninterrupted, not have to keep adjusting the volume to your liking on the stereo, go where you want to, and utilize the time however you want. But after a few days, the longing to be with your family and be near the people you love the most creeps in and starts to ache. You realize that these people give meaning and purpose to your life.
Although it sounds as if I have this freedom, my friends here are a bit pesty and insist on inviting me out and involving me in their social affairs. I've only eaten at home twice in the past week. It's nice to feel as though you are the center of attention though and I have had some great times with them.
Last night I went to some friend's house for dinner. We shared a very nice wine and then, they served lobster! It was devine. Appearantly, they were able to get it from a woman from Benin who brings fresh seafood from the coast about once a month. I have bought large shrimp from her before. It was a nice evening and we shared some stimulating conversation.
Tonight, I'm invited to a party at my neighbors house. They want to go out dancing afterwards but I know that dancing here doesn't even start until midnight. As our friend Jesse often says, "you go on ahead, I'll try and catch up."
Happy Birthday Stefan! I love you.