Driving around town is like driving through a fairground. Donkey carts, someone carrying a table on their head, small children dragging a box, camels loaded down with woven grass, goats crossing, a family of three, four or five on a moped next to you. Every time you stop the car, boys run to the window to sell you are phone card. Stop lights are merely a suggestion. You can drive over the curb, around any car or cart, pass on the right, stop when you feel like it. It's crazy, then liberating: you can drive however you want.
Babies wear woolen hats as soon as the tempurature reaches anything below 90.
Went fabric shopping with Ana, my 13-year-old niece. The shop keeper put a veil on her head, covering her hair, then everyone in the store marveled at how beautiful she is. Ana wore the veil for the rest of the shopping trip, and got a marriage proposal. The more modestly a girl dresses, the prettier she is. "At home it's the opposite," commented Ana.
Someone asked me yesterday where there is a book store. Um. There is no bookstore.
You say hello, bonjour, fofo many times each day. I love the long exchanges I overhear, fonda this and mate that. How are you? How is your house, your children, the heat? Every day Zoure asks me Comment la fatigue?
If I don't chat with someone while we wait for our kids to come out of school, I feel awkward. I feel awkward in the kitchen with Zoure, if I don't make small talk. Here, you have to know each other to chat. Americans have to know each other to not chat. If I'm with the driver, I need to fill the air with small talk. The driver doesn't feel compelled to speak with me, and can drive me all around town and not say a word because we don't know each other. I can ride in the car with Peter and not talk, but that's only because I know him.
The Nigerienne holidays are based on the Islamic calandar, which moves up ten days every year compared to the Gregorian calandar we use. Holidays depend on the sighting of the new moon and we never know when they will be. They cannot be determined by just anyone, you have to wait until the right guy sees the new moon and says it's the holiday. There will be a holiday this week, Islamic New Year, Muharram, but we don't know if it will be Wednesday, Thursday or Friday.
Jennifer tagged me with this great topic. You can read hers in her column in the Ashland Tidings here.
Now for the fun part: I tag MamaLana, Amy, and Dakota. Seven things about where you live.